In today's world, you would think that we live in an egalitarian society especially in a country where people are educated enough to know the difference. Unfortunately, there are still some people out there who do not follow this. One of the most common problems of our society today is Elitism, Socialism, Racism, and Sexism.
There are just some men who still treat women like they are the "weaker" sex. As a man who was raised up by a strong single woman I beg to disagree.
I'm not going to lie, I am guilty of stereotyping people which practically means that I am judging them as well, but to my defense I'm very good at reading people and that I am right 80% of the time (I'm patronizing myself, but you can ask my friends just in case you have any doubts).
Men, (gay or straight alike) are pigs by nature although there are a few exceptions. A classic example would be putting up the toilet seat before taking a leak, not flushing the toilet and the most disgusting of all is not washing their hands right after touching their bushy, sweaty and stinky penises. Eating with their mouths open, picking their noses in public, spitting, sneezing without covering their mouths. Unfortunately, these traits are displayed by both rich and poor men alike. That's why you can never buy class. We all encounter these men everyday and we just got used to it to say nothing about it. "boys will be boys", You're right because Gentlemen are not like that.
There are times that you hear men degrading women all the time. Leaving women once they are pregnant (After you pound that girl to pieces you just deny the fact that you had sex?). Constantly cheating on their wives, treating women like their property, hitting them. I have one question to men who did and are currently doing this, "Did your Mother raise you like that?".
I started working for a new company last Monday and I usually don't talk to anyone while on training while I asses what type of people I am dealing with. And before I even heard anyone talk, I was texting a friend how I am not excited be in training because I am surrounded with men who only talk about sex and whores and I was right. Most of these men are in committed relationships and 2 of them are married yet they continue fantasizing about women 247 and talking about it publicly. Fantasizing about something is normal, but it's already bad once they turn those fantasies into reality especially if you are committed.
Call me old fashioned, but that's just they way I was raised. My brother is married for 10 years and not once has he ever cheated on his wife. My brother is a role model to all married men.
For 5 days, I have been trying to hold myself back from lashing out at people however people are just plain stupid and tactless. They continue to talk about how it's okay to cheat on women as long as they don't know about it its not considered cheating. Then I had to say something "So if your wife/partner cheats on you and you don't know about it then it's okay?" Then this one guy says "Why would she even think about cheating. I'M HER PARTNER" (He said it in such a confident manner wherein the point he was trying to get across was that he is a handsome and desirable man). I started to roll my eyes and at the back of head I really wanted to say "Do you honestly believe you are good looking? Please! Gay men are more good looking than you and that's a known fact". I ended up not saying it because I know when not to offend people, even if they really need a boot up their asses.
I may not know a lot about women, but I know hell of a lot when it comes to respect and karma. You can never change a person's perspective overnight and sometimes even if you try, these people will never learn. --- This message applies to my DAD.
I still have 3 weeks to be around these people and It seems that I'll just be grinding my teeth the whole time. I may not like them but I do pity them, I would feel sorry for their children and their grandchildren. If they continue on the path of being pigs, then its going to go on for generations that means that our future will still have people like these.
As much as I hate to admit it the world needs people like these just to provide balance. Nevertheless, goodness, kindness and respect still begets the same thing. You don't necessarily have to deal with these people. You may be working with some of them, but there's always a way to separate yourself from work and your personal life.
"Respect begets Respect"
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